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Commission on Exploited & Missing Children
146 Chestnut Street
Toms River, NJ 08753

Hours: Mon-Fri (8:30am-4:30pm)
Phone: (732) 929-2189
Fax:  732-349-4742


Email : mpipeling@co.ocean.nj.us
On the Web : CMEC Home Page

2007 Meeting Schedule

January 17
February 21
March 21
April 18
May 16
June 20
July - No Meeting
August - No Meeting
September 19
October 17
November 21
December 19


Meetings are held 7PM - 9PM
Room 116
Administration Building
Ocean County Complex
Directions to the Complex


Annual Conference




On October 16, 2006 the Ocean County Commission on Exploited & Missing Children held it's Annual Conference.

This year the Commission hosted a conference entitled:

How Homeland Security Keeps Our Children Safe at School

This conference dealt with issues concerning the safety of our children, particularly within the school system.

Our Keynote speakers for the evening were from the Ocean County Sheriff’s Department, Office of Emergency Management, Domestic Preparedness Planner, Bob Butkus and Emergency Management Planner Charlie Webster

They described some high profile and recent acts of school terrorism, along with preventive measures and the 10 myths about school shootings.

The 10 Myths About School Shootings:
  1. He didn't fit the profile.
    • There is no profile.
    • Stereotypes are not useful in preventing attacks.
    • Attackers have been of all races and family situations with academic achievement from failing to excellent.

  2. He just snapped.
    • Attackers to not just snap.
    • Incidents progress from forming an idea, to planning the attack to gathering weapons.
    • Process can happen quickly.

  3. No one knew.
    • In most cases someone else knew.
    • Most attackers engaged in some behavior prior to the incident that causes concern or indicates a need for help.
    • Information is rarely carried forward before an incident.

  4. He hadn't threatened anyone.
    • Too much emphasis placed on threats.
    • Most attackers did not threaten and most threateners did not attack.

  5. He was a loner.
    • In today's multimedia, internet accessible environment is anyone truly a loner?

  6. He was crazy.
    • One third of the attackers had been seen be a mental health professional and only on fifth had been diagnoses with a mental health disorder.
    • Most attackers show a history of suicidal attempts or feeling deep depression.

  7. If only we had a SWAT team or metal detector.
    • Despite prompt law enforcement response, most shootings are over before a team can arrive.
    • Metal detectors have not deterred attackers committed to killing themselves and others.

  8. He'd never touched a gun.
    • Attackers had access to guns and used them before.
    • Most attackers acquired their guns from home.

  9. We did everything we could to help him.
    • Many attackers felt bullied or persecuted by others before the attack and were unsuccessful in getting others to intervene.
    • Administrators and teachers were targeted due to this.

  10. School violence is rampant.
    • 12-20 homicides a year occurring in >100,000 schools.
    • Less common than gang-related homicides of children.


Contact the Exploited and Missing Children's Commission

By working together, we can provide a safer environment for our children.

Phone: (732) 929-2189
Fax : (732) 349-4742
Email:mpipeling@co.ocean.nj.us

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